I Don't Want Your Advice – or Do I?

I Don't Want Your Advice – or Do I?

February 24th Newsletter

How often do you ask people for advice? And if you do, how often do you follow it? Most people don’t actually want advice, simply thinking out loud. If someone comments, great, but that’s not really the goal.

Last week, I found myself in this exact situation while having my hair done. Chatting with Michelle, my stylist, I wondered aloud what I was going to cook for dinner. Weather is a big factor in what I cook, so I looked at the window. That particular day was in the 50s, overcast and dry, but it wasn’t grilling weather yet. Michelle interrupted my rambling with the suggestion of spaghetti squash with tomato sauce. Interesting idea, but it didn’t really sound exciting. “Great idea!” This was enough of a comment to move on to the next subject, which is usually the case with a stylist or anyone for that matter. No wonder stylists know everything. It’s impossible to just sit in the chair and say nothing. Michelle also gave me an idea for a birthday present I needed to buy, stemming from another random comment I made.

The gift idea really was a good one, a bottle of olive oil for a cooking friend. Perfect. The best thing was the store was just around the corner, so I booked my next appointment, i.e., next advice session, and off I went to buy the olive oil. On the way back to my car, I passed a grocery store. Yes, you guessed it. Why not take her advice on dinner? After all, the olive oil was a great idea. So, I stopped in to buy a spaghetti squash. Knowing my son wouldn’t exactly love this meal, I added frozen meatballs to my basket. And just like that, dinner was planned, something to break out of my normal routine.

As it turns out, the meal was terrific, not only in taste but how simple it was to make. The hardest part was cutting the spaghetti squash in half. Since the sauce is made from pantry ingredients and only takes 30 minutes to make means you can make it anytime. Add meatballs, frozen or homemade, or Italian sausages for a more complete meal.

My unsolicited advice for my readers is to listen to the advice people give you, at least once in a while. You might find excitement in breaking with your normal routine. After all, what harm will it do?

Thanks for all the interesting comments about the lime story from last week! Some people loved it, and others asked if was insane. No, I’m not insane; I just want answers.

As always, happy cooking and eating!